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Best friend sister quotes for the friend who became family

In a community garden with a pale blue shed behind, a woman in her early forties with a short light brown bob and a sand-colored sweater pushes a navy wheelbarrow of dark compost along a path between raised vegetable beds, while a woman around forty with long dark curls and a sky-blue jacket walks beside her with a green watering can and a hand on her chest, and both of them are laughing

A best friend who feels like a sister is someone you chose who became family anyway. These lines are for that friend, and every one of them is written for two grown women. Use one word for word, or change it until it sounds like you. For the sister you were born with, quotes about siblings has lines about sisters by birth.

An example: "Which one of you is the big sister?" the man at the next plot asks. Saskia, 42, sets down the wheelbarrow of compost and points at herself. "Me. By two years and a lot of advice." Wren, 40, laughs so hard she spills half the watering can on her own boots. They aren't related. They met at 21, when they both answered the same ad for a two-bedroom flat with a broken oven. Now they split a garden plot at the edge of town, along with the tomatoes, the key to the shed and most of each other's secrets. Later Wren texts Saskia a line she's been turning over all afternoon: "Nobody gave us the same parents. We grew the rest ourselves."

Best friends are sisters quotes, short enough to send

  • "We picked each other, and then we kept picking each other."
  • "You're the sister I found on my own."
  • "Friends first, sisters by now."
  • "Same heart, different last names."
  • "You were never a guest in my life. You were family from the second week."
  • "Not born sisters. Made sisters, which took longer and counts double."
  • "My sister by choice and my best friend by habit."

Sisters not by blood

These are for the moment someone asks how you two are related, and the honest answer is "we're not, and also yes." When the whole family has taken her in, family quotes has a few lines for friends who are family.

  • "We don't share a single gene, and we share everything else."
  • "Blood gave me a family. Years of Sunday phone calls gave me you."
  • "No one assigned you to me, and I'd still choose you from a full room."
  • "You're the sister I would have asked for, if anyone had asked me."
  • "Some sisters come with the house. You came with a moving van and stayed."
  • "We have different mothers and the exact same way of rolling our eyes."

Lines for a soul sister

A soul sister is the friend who understands you before you finish the sentence. If your name for her is sister from another mister, what it means has its own page, spellings included.

  • "You're my soul sister. You hear what I mean, even when I say it badly."
  • "We're sisters by soul. The paperwork never mattered."
  • "Sister from another mother, and the same habit of getting lost."
  • "Two different families raised us, and somehow they raised the same laugh."
  • "Some people feel like home. You feel like home with the porch light still on."

When she's been your sister for twenty years

Long friendships have their own kind of line, the kind only she will fully get.

  • "Twenty years in, you still know which of my 'I'm fine' texts are true."
  • "We've each had three haircuts we agreed never to talk about again."
  • "You've met every version of me, and you liked most of them."
  • "We were 21 with a broken oven. Now we're 40 and still burning toast together."
  • "Our friendship never stayed the same. It just kept turning into family."

For the friend who always shows up

Some friends say "call me anytime." The sister kind is on her way before you call.

  • "You never ask if I need help. You ask what time you should come."
  • "When everything went wrong, yours was the first car in my driveway."
  • "You've helped me move three times, every box up to the top floor, and not one time did you say 'again?'"
  • "Some sisters you can phone at four in the morning. You're the one who calls back at 4:01."
  • "I don't keep score with you. I'd lose anyway."

Funny lines for the sister you picked yourself

  • "We're not related, which is probably why we still like each other."
  • "You're the sister I'd fight for the front seat, and you'd win."
  • "If we're not sisters, explain why we both want the last cookie."
  • "Sisters by choice, troublemakers by nature."
  • "Our neighbors don't know our last names. They just call us 'those two.'"

Lines for her card

A card gives you room for a line that's a little longer and a little softer than a text.

  • "Thank you for being the family I didn't have to wait for."
  • "You have been my sister in all but name, and I don't tell you that enough."
  • "Whatever happens next, I already know who I'm calling first."
  • "To my sister by heart, from the one who still has your good scarf."

For her birthday, there are more lines for a friend's birthday card to borrow.

Thank-you lines for a sister friend

Sometimes the thing you most want to tell her is thank you, for something big or for nothing in particular.

  • "Thanks for each time you said 'I'm coming over' instead of 'that sounds hard.'"
  • "Thanks for loving me on the days I made it difficult."
  • "I've lost count of the favors you've done me. You never counted them at all."
  • "Thank you for treating my problems like they were yours."
  • "You turned a flat with a broken oven into a home. Thank you for that, and for everything after."

Why some friends feel like sisters

Some friendships take years to turn into family, and others feel that way within a month. Typeza looks at this through relationship types, the patterns that show up between two personality types.

Friends in Duality often say the other one fills in what they lack, so time together feels restful. Activation friends wake each other up, and the friendship runs on shared plans and a lot of laughing, with some time apart in between. In Identity, two friends are so alike that they finish each other's thoughts, and strangers ask if they're sisters. Wren and Saskia would say they're the first kind. Saskia plans the beds, Wren remembers to water them, and neither of them wants the other's half of the job.

Find out what makes the two of you family

Type is often part of why. Typeza shows what happens between two people's types, so you can see why she feels like a sister and not only a friend. Take the free friendship compatibility test to get your type, then send her your result link. Once she answers, you'll both see your relationship type and what it says about how you get along.

More pages for the people who feel like family

A sister friend counts on National Sisters Day, the first Sunday in August. If you want another word for her, bestie meaning explains bestie, BFF and the other names for a best friend. And for the men in your life who are friends like brothers, there's a page of brotherhood quotes.

Questions people ask

What do you call a best friend who is like a sister?

Sister friend, soul sister, sister by choice and sister from another mister are all common. Bestie and BFF work when you want something lighter.

Written by Virko Kask, founder of Typeza
Written with the help of AI tools.

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