Free Family Compatibility Test

You love them, and you still talk past each other at every family dinner. This test types you and one family member, then shows which of 16 relationship types the two of you make, and why some talks go well and others go wrong every time.

Tap the one that fits you better

Free and unlimited. No card, no account needed to answer.

How it works

Take the test

Answer for yourself, not for your family: pairs of statements, no neutral middle.

Send them the link

Your parent, sibling or grown-up child takes the same test on their own, about themselves. Nobody rates the other person.

See your relationship type

When they finish, you both see which of the 16 relationship types you two make: its name, a one-line summary and how it tends to feel from each side.

This is not a quiz about your family

Most family quizzes ask who the favourite child is or how well you know your mother. This one asks nothing about your family history. Each of you describes yourself, and the reading comes from how your two personality types fit together. That is why it can explain things a trivia quiz cannot: why one of you plans every visit and the other wants to see how the day goes, or why the same argument comes back every year.

What family ties look like across the 16 types

Easy to be around

You cover what the other needs, and time together feels calm.

Duality and Activation sit here.

Same wavelength

You think alike and agree fast, but you also miss the same things.

Identity and Kindred sit here.

One sets the tone

One of you leads without trying, and the other often feels a step behind.

Supervisor and Supplier sit here.

Hard work

You care about each other and still keep getting it wrong.

Conflict and Super-ego sit here.

See all 16 relationship types

Getting your type right matters

If either of you lands on the wrong type, your relationship type is wrong too. When the test is unsure, it shows the types that came close: read those profiles or take the AI interview, then set the type that sounds like you.

Who people take it with

  • A parent and a grown-up child - the talk you keep meaning to have.
  • Siblings - same parents, very different people.
  • In-laws - a way to understand the family you married into.
  • The whole family - everyone takes it, and each of you sees your relationship type with everyone you have connected with.

Taking it with a partner? What the test shows for couples

Taking it with a friend? What the test shows for friends

Questions people ask

Still deciding? How to know if you're compatible with someone

See how you and your family fit

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Based on classical socionics theory - a description of typical patterns between types, not relationship advice or a prediction for your relationship. Terms of Service