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Aunt quotes from a grown niece or nephew

On an outdoor ice rink with snowy fir trees behind, a woman in her sixties with a curly white bob and a sand-colored coat puts her arm around a woman in her early thirties with a long black ponytail, a sky-blue jacket and a leaf-green knit hat, and the two of them skate with their free arms flung wide, laughing.

By the time you're grown, an aunt can be a lot of things: the one who helped raise you, the one with the plans, the one you call when you can't call your parents yet. These aunt quotes are for her, written from a grown niece or nephew, for any ordinary day of the year. A few lines for uncles are near the end, and so are some an aunt can send back.

An example: every December, on the Saturday the outdoor rink opens, Juno and her aunt Pip skate the first hour together. They started when Juno was 20 and Pip talked her into rental skates "just once." Twelve years later, Juno is 32, Pip is 63, and neither of them has missed a year. This time Pip announced she'd learned a spin from a video. She tried it near the middle of the ice, wobbled, threw an arm around Juno, and the two of them swung around in a slow, shrieking circle before they somehow stayed up. That night Juno sent Pip a message: "You're the only person I'd let drag me around the ice like that."

Quotes about aunts

These say what an aunt is. They work in a message, under a photo or in a card for no reason at all.

  • "Aunts know your whole history and love you anyway."
  • "An aunt is family close enough to know everything and far enough to stay calm about it."
  • "Every family needs an aunt who says what everyone else is thinking, only kinder."
  • "An aunt's door is one you can knock on at any age."
  • "A good aunt makes a big family feel smaller and a small one feel bigger."

Aunt and niece quotes

For a niece to send her aunt, from the days she made the plans to the friendship you have now.

  • "I can't name the day my aunt became my friend. I only know she is one now."
  • "We used to have one thing in common: my mom. Now we have a whole list."
  • "My aunt and I share a sense of humor nobody else in the family understands."
  • "She's my aunt, and she's also the friend I call every Sunday."
  • "We're thirty years apart and somehow agree on almost everything that matters."
  • "You're the aunt who says yes first and asks questions on the way home."
  • "My aunt has more plans for one Saturday than I have for a whole month."

Aunt and nephew quotes

Some nephews say less, so a line about one real thing she did for you is plenty.

  • "My aunt taught me how to change a tire and how to say sorry, and I still use both."
  • "To my aunt, who still calls me by my old nickname and gets away with it."
  • "My aunt is the reason I can cook more than toast."
  • "Every nephew needs an aunt who tells him the truth and then feeds him."
  • "I'm a grown man, and my aunt still asks if I've eaten. I hope she never stops."
  • "My aunt doesn't give orders. She asks one question, and then I know what to do."

For an aunt who helped raise you

Some aunts were there for nearly everything. These lines thank her for it.

  • "Some people get one mom. I got a mom and an aunt who answered the phone just as fast."
  • "You were my second home before I knew I needed one."
  • "Mom raised me, and you made sure I knew I belonged in more than one place."
  • "Every big day of my life has you somewhere in the photo."
  • "Thank you for loving me like your own and never making a big deal of it."
  • "The day I signed for my first apartment, I called Mom, and then I called you."

The aunt you call first

Many families have one: the aunt who hears everything before anyone else.

  • "You're the one I call when I'm not ready to tell my parents yet."
  • "My aunt has never been shocked by anything I told her, and I've really tried."
  • "The best advice I ever got came from my aunt, on her back steps, long after midnight."
  • "You listen like you have all night, even when you don't."

Short aunt quotes

Short enough for a text, a caption or the inside of a card.

  • "Aunt, friend, safe place."
  • "My aunt, my person."
  • "Two of us, one laugh."
  • "Lucky to call you my aunt."
  • "Part aunt, part best friend."

Funny aunt quotes

The best ones tease a habit she'd laugh about herself.

  • "My aunt and I have the same laugh, which is a problem at quiet family dinners."
  • "My aunt gives the best advice and the worst directions."
  • "I asked my aunt for one small favor and ended up on a three-day road trip."
  • "My aunt says I'm her favorite. She says it to all of us, and we all believe her."
  • "My mom tells the family stories. My aunt tells the real versions."

A few uncle quotes

Uncles get their own short list, since many families have one who quietly does a lot.

  • "My uncle doesn't say much, but he's never missed a moving day."
  • "Thank you for the jokes, the rides to the airport and the advice I didn't ask for but needed."
  • "My uncle has told the same three stories for twenty years, and I'd miss them if he stopped."

From an aunt to a grown niece or nephew

For an aunt who wants to say something back: about a new home, a job, a wedding or the calls that still come.

  • "Seeing you grow into yourself is my favorite part of being your aunt."
  • "You're all grown up, and you still call me first when something good happens. I notice."
  • "Your new place looks wonderful. My couch is still yours whenever you need it."
  • "I'm proud of the work you do, and prouder of the kind person you've stayed."
  • "You don't need my advice anymore, and I love that you still ask."
  • "On your wedding day I'll be the one crying in the second row, and I won't apologize."

What kind of aunt each type tends to be

Aunts come in all kinds. Here are six of the 16 types and the aunt each one tends to be:

  • Harmonizer makes her home the place you go to rest. There's a soft blanket, your favorite snack and no rush to talk.
  • Mentor tells you she's proud of you, in words, and often in front of the whole family.
  • Dreamer is the late-night talker. She'll sit with you for hours about where your life is going and never hurry you toward an answer.
  • Diplomat is the aunt with the plan: the road trip, the dare, the first one on the dance floor at a family wedding.
  • Strategist is the one you call before a big decision. She asks the one question you hadn't thought of.
  • Craftsman shows up with a toolbox on moving day and leaves every shelf straight.

Pip is close to a Diplomat. Next year's opening Saturday is already on her calendar, spin included.

Why some aunts feel like friends right away

Some aunts feel like a friend from the first long talk. With others it takes years to find your rhythm, and the way your types fit has something to do with it. Typeza puts a name on the relationship type between you and your aunt, and shows where you click and where you may clash. Your aunt can see it too: take the free family compatibility test, then send her the link on your result.

Birthdays, Aunt and Uncle Day and great-aunts

For her birthday, happy birthday aunt has wishes of every length. July 26 is National Aunt and Uncle Day in the US, and the guide to that day has lines to send. If you're after a nickname, aunt and uncle names has plenty. Your mom's or dad's aunt is your great-aunt, and you can read more on what a great-aunt is. Mother's Day messages has a part for an aunt, and to send wishes the other way, happy birthday niece and nephew has lines from an aunt or uncle. Lines about the big family as a whole are in family quotes.

Questions people ask

What is a good quote for an aunt?

"Aunts know your whole history and love you anyway." It fits almost any aunt. For one you're close to, pick a line about something only the two of you share.

What is a short quote about aunts?

"Aunt, friend, safe place." It's short enough for a card, a text or a photo caption.

What can a niece say to her aunt?

Tell her what she means to you now, as an adult. "She's my aunt, and she's also the friend I call every Sunday" says it simply.

What is a good aunt and nephew quote?

"My aunt taught me how to change a tire and how to say sorry, and I still use both." A line about one thing she taught you works well.

What is a funny quote about an aunt?

"My aunt gives the best advice and the worst directions." Gentle jokes about a real habit of hers work best, as long as she'd laugh too.

Written by Virko Kask, founder of Typeza
Written with the help of AI tools.

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