Days and wishes6 min read

World Smile Day: when it is, and small ways to make someone smile

Three clay running friends by a wooden fence at a lake, a woman with a blonde ponytail handing a steaming cup to a friend in a sky blue running jacket, and a man in a navy shirt stretching in a lunge and laughing at a small note

World Smile Day falls on the first Friday of October every year, and it asks one small thing of you: do something kind that makes at least one person smile. In 2027 it falls on Friday, October 1. The day was started in 1999 by the commercial artist who drew the yellow smiley face in 1963, because he felt the symbol had been sold so often that its meaning was lost. Its motto is short: "Do an act of kindness. Help one person smile."

An example: Nina, 34, has run around the lake with Bea and Leo every Friday at half past six for four years. Last October she saw a post about World Smile Day the night before and decided to try it on the two of them. She filled a thermos with ginger tea for Bea, who complains about the cold from September on and never remembers her gloves. For Leo she wrote a note and folded it twice: "I'd tell you a running joke, but it never ends." At the wooden fence where they stretch, Bea held the cup in both hands and went quiet, and her eyes got wet. Leo read the note and laughed, and he was still laughing a kilometer later.

The date, the motto and the other smile day

So when is World Smile Day in a given year? Because it follows a rule, the date moves a little from year to year. It always lands somewhere between October 1 and October 7, and always on a Friday, so it's easy to tie to a Friday dinner or a weekend coffee. Some people call it International Smile Day, and that's the same day under another name. National Smile Day is a separate day, held in the United States on May 31.

The motto is the whole idea. You don't have to buy or post anything to take part. One act of kindness, aimed at one person, is enough.

Small ways to make someone smile on World Smile Day

Many of these are quick and cost little:

  1. Bring a friend their usual drink before they ask for it.
  2. Send an old photo of the two of you with one line about the day it was taken.
  3. Text a song, a meme or a picture of a dog that looks just like their dog, with "this made me think of you."
  4. Slip a short note into a book you are giving back.
  5. Tell someone one specific thing you like about them. A plain sentence beats a big speech. If that feels awkward, these ideas on how to show appreciation make it easier to say.
  6. Call your grandmother and ask for the recipe she always makes, then cook it that weekend.
  7. Let someone go ahead of you in line, and thank the person who makes your coffee by name.
  8. Return something you borrowed months ago, with a small treat taped to it.
  9. Phone a friend instead of texting, only to say hello.
  10. Pick the friend you keep telling "we should get together" and name an actual date.

Make each person smile in their own way

Nina's two gifts worked because each one fit the friend who got it. A joke for Bea would have been fine. The tea meant more to her because it showed Nina had noticed something.

The friend who lives for a good laugh

A bad pun, a ridiculous photo from ten years ago, or a voice note retelling something silly from a trip will do it. This friend smiles hardest when you make them laugh out loud. If jokes don't come easily to you, how to be funnier has plain advice that works among friends.

The friend who smiles at small comforts

This is Bea. Think of a warm drink on a cold morning, their favorite snack in your bag, or a spare pair of gloves because you know they'll forget theirs. They smile because it proves you pay attention to how they feel.

The friend who would rather hear it than get it

Some people don't care much for things. They smile at words, like a message saying why you're glad they're in your life, or a note about one moment you still remember. Keep it short and honest.

The relative who likes things to be useful

A treat is nice, but help is better. Fix the wobbly shelf, carry the heavy bags, sort out the settings on the new phone. They smile because a job got done, and because you did it without being asked.

The friend who loves something new

Invite them to try something together: a sunrise walk, a café neither of you has been to, a lake you've only seen on a map. For this friend the smile comes with the plan.

Start a smile chain with your friends

World Smile Day works well in a friends' group chat. In the morning, one person makes someone smile and says so in the chat, then names the next friend. That friend does the same and passes it on, until everyone has had a turn by the evening. Keep the rules light. It has to be small and free, and the person who got the smile never has to post about it. By the end of the day the chat is full of small kind things.

Why a joke works on one friend and a kind word on another

Bea and Leo smiled at very different things, and personality type can be part of the reason. Here is what tends to make eight of the 16 types smile:

  • Harmonizer: loves comfort and ease. A warm drink, a soft blanket or a slow breakfast together will do it.
  • Analyst: smiles at a clever idea. A smart pun, an odd fact or a puzzle you know they'll solve lands better than a hug.
  • Mentor: cares about feelings and how people grow. Tell them how something they said once helped you.
  • Dreamer: gentle and quick to sense a mood. A quiet note or a walk somewhere beautiful means a great deal to them.
  • Diplomat: lively and drawn to fun. Make it playful and a little showy, with company around.
  • Guardian: values loyalty. Arrive at the time you promised, and remember the thing they mentioned last week.
  • Encourager: lights up at new ideas. Suggest something you've never done together.
  • Craftsman: calm and practical. Lend a hand with a real task, or bring something well made that they'll use.

The tea, the note and the last kilometer

On the walk back to the cars, Bea asked how Nina knew what each of them needed. Next October, Leo is in charge of the jokes.

Learn why your friends smile at different things

A joke makes one friend smile and a warm drink makes another, and type can explain part of that. Before next October comes around, the free friendship compatibility test will name your own type. Send your result's link to the friends you want to surprise. Each friend who answers adds one more relationship type to read, from the easy parts of that friendship to the spots where you bump heads.

Questions people ask

Which day of the year is World Smile Day?

The first Friday of October. That puts it somewhere from October 1 to October 7.

Is World Smile Day the same as National Smile Day?

No. National Smile Day is a separate day in the United States, held on May 31.

What is the motto of World Smile Day?

"Do an act of kindness. Help one person smile."

How can I make someone smile today?

Do something small that fits them: a joke for the friend who loves to laugh, a warm drink for the one who is always cold, a kind word for the one who keeps every message.

Is there an International Smile Day?

Yes. It's another name for World Smile Day.

Sources

  • Wikipedia, "Harvey Ball": the commercial artist who drew the smiley face in 1963, World Smile Day on the first Friday of October, and its motto.
  • Boston 25 News, "World Smile Day has its roots in Worcester": first held in 1999, started because he felt the smiley had lost its meaning through overuse.
  • Calendarr, "National Smile Day": the separate US day on May 31.

Written by Virko Kask, founder of Typeza
Written with the help of AI tools.

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